As it happens he bit the bullet and bought himself lingerie, clothes, constitute wigs the whole works about four weeks before we came across and tossed all of them in a dumpster the afternoon We relocated in with him.
I do believe we had been both just a little shocked once I just said “well if you wish to dress then take action!!”
I really like this guy along with my heart therefore the idea which he have been passing up on something which clearly made him so pleased because he had been ashamed and scared of the way I would react made me perthereforenally therefore unfortunate.
Don’t misunderstand me, I happened to be terrified. It had been but still is quite confusing!
In place of me personally wondering if he wished to be a girl, was he transgender? if he desired to be with a cross dresser rather than me personally, i discovered myself wondering! Therefore numerous concerns.
That 3 hour drive he replied every one of my concerns truthfully. For the time that is first our history, he had been truthful.
He could be interested in crossdressers because he views them as ladies
He does not wish to be a lady
He didn’t dress the entire time we had been together
He never came across anyone through the websites
There clearly was only a little “sexting” in the sites
He never ever took some of my underwear
We told him that We liked him so that 
as long as he was truthful beside me and would not disrespect me by chatting with another person I became ready to accept him crossdressing. I believe he had been relieved it was finally out in the available. And excited. For the shopping!!